Posted by nakedgirlavalanche no, as an adult who comes from a home where I was constantly punished physically for trivial to almost nothing I don't condone it, it does trtrk with you whether its sub-conscious or conscious
Sorry to hear that, tell your folks it's "lazy parenting"
mostly my father, my mom has always been great
Thank God for good mums. What did he do to you?
growing up my dad was always working + a drunk so he'd hit all of us for no reason mostly based on assumption and because he deemed us to be misbehaving it was a mixture between belt or kneeling on gravel but kneeling was my favorite because if we counted to 100 punishment would be over
I think he hit us for control tbh he seemed to enjoy it and told us not to cry after or else we'd get hit again
he's not a drunk anymore he's a catholic so basically in his eyes and those who didn't know him at his worst he is a pure saint
Drunk Catholic cruel hypocrite...😐. Great "Christian" hey? 😡
So sorry for what you went through....do you still talk to him?
yeah, he's my father after all plus he is sober has been for a while I mean you can forgive but never forget i've gone thru my own rough upbringing but family is always family it has been ingrained since day 1
I don't agree that we have to be in the company of anyone who is violent and abuses us. Being a father means other things to me
He is very lucky to have you in his life, I hope he realises that
he doesn't the other day I was having a small mood swing a temper passed down by him might I add and he said he doesn't know how my man or any man can put up with me