Long story shot, we been texting each other for half yr and seen for few times (we live in different country) also tried to plan to go for a trip and we get along well, he wanted sex at first but I rejected but then the next time he still came out to see me and didn’t mention sex, it seems he still want to see me without sex, then recently I flyover to his country to met up and everything was good and we kissed and I met his friends as well, we talked he asked me questions about my 2 months trip and I told him I met a guy and we kinda travel together, after that night he disappeared not answering my txt, and then few days later I txt him again, he finally replied but told me he just look for sex that was why cut me off