For the first time, agree to meet them for only half an hour in a public place (like Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts cuz their coffee is yummier) in the middle of the day. Regardless of the "connection" you feel online. Just do it.
You will only lose half an hour of your day and escape unscathed if he turns out to be a Catfish and not the dreamboat puppy nose you saw in his profile pics.
I’ve had nightmares for the last two nights so I’m fighting sleep tonight because the dreams seem to be getting progressively worse. Last night I had a dream someone was in my home and it’s been difficult for me to relax at home ever since.
I should add
Do Walter Pullen simple chart delineation.
Find your highest element: Fire, Earth, Air, Water.
Find your highest modality. Cardinal, Fixed, Mutable.
What’s your sun sign?
What’s your overall energy sign?