Posted by starlord After a night out, the young cap drove me and a mutual friend and coworker home, and they both crashed at my place. She didn't know anything about me and him ever hooking up. They are really good friends and were sorta goofing around in bed before sleep. They were next to each other, and I was besidde her. I felt weird and went out. I came back and they were spooning, the cap guy was asleep. I cracked. I thought hell no am I gonns let him do that with another girl in my bed. The girl was awake, I thought he was too actually, and just said to her, that me and him had been together, and I thought it was disrespectful of him to do that with her in my bed with me in it.
And that's my question: if me and the cap guy are just friends, but friends who has had sex and he tried to get me to have sex with him as late as New years Eve, am I then in the right or am I overrreacting? Him and the girl are just friends. They both say they see each other as bros. She has just grotten out of a relationship with another guy who we all also know. So there was nothing to it, but I still thought he should have not done it. In my bed!!!!
It ended up that the girl left, she thought it was awkward, and I went to sleep on the couach in another room, as to not give the young guy any ideas is he woke up and saw, that we were alone in bed. He then woke up and took off. He said, he could figure out I had told her. He then uninvited me to his upcoming birthday. When I asked why, he said because I can't control my emotions, that I had just proven that to him. He thought I had moved in from the whole thing, but clearly I had not. Mind you he tried to hook up at New years Eve.
Is he not overrreacting?? I have never created any drama for him when out, I have been supportive of him asking this girl out and trying to get that girl and so and so. I've never done anything.
He was like "once I tried having a girl treetrunk a guy right next to me, and yes it hurt a little but then I just moved on, as she had too". Cooooooooold!! No?! I mean smart, but cold.
It seems like this is a pattern I've seen in myself and the Caps around me. It's more or less severe depending on the placement of Saturn in your chart. With Saturn opposing my ASC and in my 6th house you can guess how that goes for me. 🙃