Posted by nikkistarPosted by hellosaggy
yeah I am trying to navigate. aqua's birthday is Sunday, so I have to kind of get them satisfied through weekend.
I actually like the polygamy life, other than the financial stretching, I get to juggle so I'm not bored. Yeah the aqua wants a don't ask, dont tell policy with me. I try to respect it. when she drinks she's suuuupppper possessive(she's Puerto Rican), and says how much she loves me and wants a future. but as soon as she's around her gay friends, shes like he has a penis, that's why we aren't together.
She's not comfortable just being gay and not a full "lesbian", because I guess being Bi is a crime or something. I laugh at her because we've been together over a year, but we don't acknowledge it, but her lesbian girlfriend demands social media posts and for her not to talk to me while she's around.
I told her Friday why doesn't she just go be with the girl and move out. She said because even if I moved out I still want you, so I will cheat on her with you. She's a mess. so I don't want to add to it by her knowing while she's trapped by her girlfriend I have two fwb.
I don't know why, but this makes me sad for the aqua. As if her gay friends wouldn't accept that she can be bisexual or even love regardless of gender.click to expand