Posted by SagittariusInLove

Posted by hellosaggy
wait.you broke up... but didnt want to? and mad hes being weird? why didn't you just set expectations and hold him accountable.

I don't like this game playing.

After I talked to him face to face about the issue and he didn’t make changes I had no choice but to follow through with my promise to him of walking away. I did set expectations which he didn’t follow. I had no choice as much as I’m crazy for him I can’t let him ignore my needs. I’m not playing games I’m guarding my heart & walking away from a person who doesn’t want to offer what I need from him. He was reaching out in hopes to get me back but things were never going to change, if he wants to talk and fix it I’m all for it.

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I can respect that and Good for you for sticking to your guns.

Honestly.... sending you dick pics and shirtless photos is immature, if you are on the outs.

I’m 35 and a little older I guess.

He knows what the issues are... him physically obviously was not one of them. At some point he has to grow up. You leaving the door open for him to play games won’t trigger it to happen until he feels he’s completely lost you.

I’m a serial dater and a sag. If you gave me ultimatums and I wasn’t serious about you. I’d sincerely tell you sorry I can’t do it and cut you off. He’s testing your resolve. He might not be in the space to be super serious and just want to love you and keep options open, I have commitment issues too until I’m very certain in something. But that’s not the way to handle it

I’m a cap mercury so I’m all about communication and my sag sun is all about openness and honesty...

But my Aries moon and I are best buds and I’m selfish when it comes to what I want.