Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.
I had similar issue with this Cap man: Cap Libra Moon Cap Merc Scorpio Venus Gemini Mars
We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.
Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*