He's not interested. He's never been interested enough in you hence why nothing ever came of it even when there were opportunities. He's also not available. He's not physically available due to moving and he's not emotionally available because he's made poor choices in his previous girlfriends and is suffering because of it. He could just be bullbutterting you because he's just not that interested in you and is being polite with his rejection. It is OK for him not to be interested in you. It's not a bad reflection on you. It just, is. Just because you felt something doesn't mean he did. Feelings are subjective. Why would you wan to get involved with someone who is moving away and who isn't available? Are the pickings in Texas THAT slim these days?