Posted by starlordPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by hellosaggyPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by hellosaggy
men and women have been manipulating people for sex or whatever else they are after since the beginning of time.
MOST of the time its men wanting sex from a hot girl, unless she's a step above in the socioeconomic ladder.
women typically give up the goods to men higher up on the looks and/or socioeconomic ladder.
it is what it is. its life and its not fair and its what you make of it.
Now mature adults lay out what they want on the table and manage expectations. that's what you need to find,
lol @ women that feel men don't want a relationship in fear of failing. men don't want a relationship in fear of missing out on the next chick that's better than you that comes around. if a man felt you were amazing, he would stay until he found out otherwise. women have to stop believing bullshit just because it makes them feel better.
no man will turn down wifing a woman that's amazing. he might be scared to lose her but he aint going to mess it up by not at least committing to some level of a relationship.
Sex isn't enough to keep me, but bad sex is enough for me NOT to be with you. you have to have other partnership qualities than getting me off, but you better drain me in a variety of ways.
Wow. That's a cute trick how you let yourself off the hook for terrible behavior by claiming that's just life. At least you're honest (to us).
what is terrible behavior? and just because you feel its terrible behavior because you pretend to be the morality police, doesn't make it so.
I'm honest with everybody. The aqua made it clear she doesn't want to know how I entertain myself while she's off with her lesbian partner. so I don't tell her. we set rules for our open relationship. when she leaves to spend a day or two with her girlfriend, she might come back saying she missed me, or give me a sex story or two. I don't offer up anything.
"before, when I was jumping around. I did it for purely selfish reasons, I like the variety, sometimes you play on the emotions, to keep them accessible. I don't think men feel women are "stupid" for trusting us. its ignoring the morality of lying to someone's face, that you are supposed to - and pretend - to care about. That's more so on the man than the woman though."
I think this is the exact behavior that the OP feels she was subjected to. Maybe she's right after all, and she met someone like you who just thought you make of life what you will because everyone's an asshole.
I don't even want to be right!! 😭
I have probably presenter myself wrong here many times and many times people assume many things about me based on my postst.
The 5 guys that made me really really sad in my life, the circumstances where different with all of them and everything was different.
First one I didn't do anything sexual with or even kiss for more than a year.
Next 3 ones I got with quickly, thinking it was just gonna be that, but they wanted to keep things going and did so in different ways. One for 5 years. And with him it is like the 5 one, the one where he seems to be such a good guy, and he wad to me for a while, but then he changed, and now he's... Yeah, it's just hard for me to accept, how shitty they really are to me, that there is nothing I can do to not be the girl you treat like shit in their minds. And with this last one it hurts more, because there were months before anything, where he would be good to me.
All of them I met friends and were included in some way, went to different things, were invited to birthdays, but at the same time so much behaviour that shows their true colors. And with this last one it also hurts a lot because he is good to everybody else. I honestly don't know why the fuck he has to almost go out of his way to be a dick to me.
And then on social media he is doing charity work and being funny and cute and very emotional, talking about trust and stuff. Nobody has ever been so... Twofaced with me.click to expand