Posted by hellosaggy
Yep. because it's easy for a woman to drop a guy that doesn't do anything for you. but not a man that just doesn't commit, because a lot of women feel they "can change him"... because he's amazing. vs being a deadbeat.

this one girl, shes gorgeous, she has decent, but not great sex and she has nothing else to offer. not conversation, not cooking, not house keeping, no ambition, she wants to be a mom though.

the other night, she was like. I have a good heart, and I think I am great company. wtf, am I supposed to say to that. yeah you are pretty and you seem to have a good heart. but really you are boring/selfish, and not partnership quality?

I told her. I can't see myself settling down (didn't say with her, kept that part to myself), but if you want to see who else is out there that could compliment you, I won't stand in your way, just let me know.

obviously, trying to mitigate the situation screwed up my plans for the night, but I had to keep it 85% lol