Posted by starlord

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by starlord

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by hellosaggy
Yep. because it's easy for a woman to drop a guy that doesn't do anything for you. but not a man that just doesn't commit, because a lot of women feel they "can change him"... because he's amazing. vs being a deadbeat.

this one girl, shes gorgeous, she has decent, but not great sex and she has nothing else to offer. not conversation, not cooking, not house keeping, no ambition, she wants to be a mom though.

the other night, she was like. I have a good heart, and I think I am great company. wtf, am I supposed to say to that. yeah you are pretty and you seem to have a good heart. but really you are boring/selfish, and not partnership quality?

I told her. I can't see myself settling down (didn't say with her, kept that part to myself), but if you want to see who else is out there that could compliment you, I won't stand in your way, just let me know.

obviously, trying to mitigate the situation screwed up my plans for the night, but I had to keep it 85% lol

I feel like Sags and Virgos tell the most truth to women when dating....

"this one girl, shes gorgeous, she has decent, but not great sex and she has nothing else to offer. not conversation, not cooking, not house keeping, no ambition, she wants to be a mom though."

...she probably thinks she's "the shit" and will be posting on DXP soon. You shoulda helped her a told her the truth but, I guess you wanna come back to the kitty at some point.

See stuff like this. I guess I'm just a different type of person. To not be truthful to try and keep the options for sex open... Even when she was trying to get the truth out of him, and he didn't tell her.
Ofcours he tells her to go meet other guys, and that should be enough, but still... This would make me feel very used. All I read about scorpio is about trust. I guess when the intentons become clear, for me that means I go back and look at everything said and done in a brand new light of 'he wants pussy', and that's all. Everything he does and says is to get pussy. Nothing is hobest or friendly or heart felt. It's all for the pussy. And had I know that to begin with, I would have never gone into it. And now I have to sit there and learn how to be even more distrustful and close myself up even more and feel such regret in my life, because another person was not truthful with me for a long time. The trust is broken and everything changes.
That's how I work mentally.

You cherry pick alot.

As I stated earlier - varying degrees of attraction... she was O for alot.

...she has decent, but not great sex and she has nothing else to offer. not conversation, not cooking, not house keeping, no ambition, she wants to be a mom though."

I don't know what cherry pick means... 🤷🏼‍♀️
But yeah if somebody felt like that about me but kept having sex with me, I mean he would have to lie to my face to make me want to have sex with him, because I would never want to have sex with someone, who thought so little of me. And the sex isn't even that good!!!! So yes I would still feel used. Pretend to like me to get sex. How humiliating.
But I know, this is a downfall for me as well, since it keeps me from enjoying sex.

(this is not in relation to a one night stand pr something, where you don't know the person)

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Why cut some one down? I slept with one man in particluar on a regular basis over a year who had " not forever" qualities. He begged me to tell.him why... it was a list just like hellosaggy but I felt it would be degrading to do...list all that. I refused to cut him down like that. I liked the sex becsuse it made me feel good and comforted me though. I like to feel heavily desired...passion. But, no'no no, to anything else.