Posted by gemNi
This story kinda reminds me of an incident with my six year old and her classmates from school were all gathered in the cubby area and one kid was asking mommy why her friends don't have dad's, the mom trying to explain why some kids don't have father's, didn't fully grasp it, in the child's own way of understanding made a comment to the mom that she didn't need a dad either and how she wanted to be like her friends. On a six year old this type of irrational behavior is understandable on a grown adult, nope.
I read all eleven pages and thought. I didn't read anything on the emotional abusive side not even in the comment "your trying to turn my kids against me" in context a lot of it sounds like jealously, hurt feelings from people too invested by their feelings that it's distorting their perception.
Just listening to Whorpio distorted views of mommy dearest
.. mommy an angel
.. mommy the greatest
.. mommy can do better
.. mommy can find a better man
.. mommy can do no wrong
.. love mommy
Dad's views are probably something like
.. what about me
.. no love for dad
.. I put in years to raise Whorpio too
Turn it around and take the grown jealous, hurt man out to eat or something just the two of you. Praise him for being dad, leave out discussing anything about mommy dearest. I'm saying this lovingly, grow up whorpio. Both parents put in equally to raising you neither one of them are "throw aways" consider your sister feelings too. Find the win-win, don't cut one out because your love for the other is more stronger. Think of this in a way of *potentially coming back to bite you should you ever end up with kids who conjure up irrationally, on the daily.
I read this and had a good chuckle cause my little, look a like Scorpio is a die hard team mommy (on the low) but even she knows not to take sides because the only winning side is both sides.