Posted by blvckphvsePosted by EarthyPosted by blvckphvsePosted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by Whorpio
Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.
I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣
I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter
You completely misunderstand the point. If you can't provide for a child financially, are not in a good place mentally or don't have support to raise a child, it's selfish to have one PERIOD. It's not about what's best for me.. I was not in a good place financially and I was in an abusive relationship. Tell me how bringing a child into an abusive relationship was going to benefit it in any way at all.. Clearly I was not managing myself to the best of my ability if I was staying in a butterty relationship.. what kind of mother could I be if I didn't even have my own butter together?? What kind of role model would I be clinging to someone who abused me?? Sad that women don't even think about who they are as a person before reproducing.. casue it's super fkn important.
But okay, lets pretend like suicide never ever happens. People are depressed as treetrunk these days and most of it stems from a poor upbringing. If I can't provide a child with a decent upbringing then yes, they are better off not being in this world. Not to mention that the state of the world isn't a great place to bring a child into anyways..click to expand