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I'm a Libra Sun/Leo Moon He's an Aries Sun/Gemini Moon - do we even match astrologically?
yes you do match.
did he contact you this month? I wonder how many peps got they past surfacing during this retrograde shadow lmao.
Yeah he always texts first - mostly, rarely I would say anything to him first
Is it a good match, I know we match well I think we do but never sure because of the distance situations im in with him.
well, in that situation, that's basically my only problem, for me a Long distance relationships has only one purpose, to work towards moving together, anything else is a no-brainer, so if no one is willing to consider moving, there is no point even discussing this topic.
I'm willing to move with him but I don't think it's serious enough for either of us to bring it up and to even consider it?
I am talking from the heights of my age and experience fortunately or not...I’ve learned that men do grow up and morph into a different people while doing so.
My ex husband and Scorpio AND my amazing Aries all were bad asses at their younger age and meeting them at their older age I’ve learned that I could never survive them IF we’ve met before their 35-40.
They had lived large in a sex scale! Even my lazy ass Cap! And he wasn’t the only one who told me that! It’s the truth being told. No bullbutter!
At some point they’ve settled. Steam was all let out and maturity kicked in and they became that marriage material that I’ve had to deal with.
I am not complaining. And I have no idea why someone just said those damn Aries will take what they can and leave...nobody ever explained to me why those words said about Aries...and I think it’s just butthurt bitterness.
From what I can tell Aries can be busy doing their things and NOT being sluts. They get consumed by their life goals and pursuing relentlessly.
Work or love. Or both.
Yours as I think is doing his thing with you on his mind. If he is moving trough his life trying to achieve his goal - he does that! Madly. Going forward and you are his dream. Distance is chilling his balls and he just might have you penciled into his future but you aren’t pushing so he is also not hanging over your head because he has ‘stuff’ to do!
Aries busy is Aries can be trusted.
They also easy to talk to specially I am assuming he is Gemini moon...so you can just ask!
I would think he will lay it all on a table and tell you what’s that is he planning for the future.
One warning in case you do talk seriously...if he isn’t going to lay it all openly and surely - he isn’t yours than and as @LadyNeptune said you are his safe harbor at home and that’s that.
You should be able to feel it.
If he has plans for you in his life you will end up your conversation knowing where you stand.
If not - move on out of his zone immediately.
I hope it’ll work out for you. Be open so he knows you would consider being with him. Ignite his fire ass so it burning for you. Try another approach. Contact him first and see what’s going to happen.
It could be an eye opener. For better or for worse it worth it! ❤️
Thank you so much for your feedback, I really enjoyed reading that. You're right, I totally see where you're coming from.
I understand that we both have something going on at different stages in our lives, I have this feeling I'm more than just a hook up to him because a hook up is easy, talking to your ex/someone you like for over 3 years is something! but maybe I'm overthinking it. Definitely worth asking him when I'm seeing him.
I'm not asking him to settle down or be committed to me just wanted to know if there's potential there but at the same, I feel like if I brought it up. He's going to think that I'm asking for hope but I'm not - I'm going to continue my life and happy to keep in touch and see when the time is right, it might work?
I do genuinely feel like when he's not too busy living his best work/travel life and ready to settle down. We would be amazing together. It's hard not knowing for me
How old are you both?
Ok. You don’t think about the talk as a tragic event! I don’t know why everyone is taking the talk as the end of life as we knew it!
When I say I want to talk my Aries always asks ‘am I in trouble?’...and it always so cute and funny and I am quickly saying no baby, I just want to talk...
And I always start my talk with ‘you know I love you...’so he wouldn’t get defensive for nothing.
Have this talk as casual as you can. However be totally vulnerable and open.
Don’t leave him thinking you pushing the envelope because you don’t. Ask him to not interrupt.
Tell him that it’s not an ultimatum. It’s not a proposal. It’s not a demand. It’s just an info he might want to know but he doesn’t because we had never talked about it...so there...’
Aries/Gemini must be intelligent enough to understand IF you will not do half-talk.
‘What are your plans for our future?’ isnt right question.
I would say ‘I have feelings for you and if you do as well - I will wait for you however if you don’t - please be honest and I promise I will survive. I just don’t want to be living unknown...Please understand and respect me as I do it at this moment because I need to stay or move on...’
Rehears this in your head until you are satisfied with it and all points of concern are addressed.
And play by the ear...
Also don’t hesitate to shoot him ‘good morning’ text and don’t wait for the reply.
Lmao imagining his deer in a headlight stare...
So work in it woman! It’s your future we talking about and so far this man haven’t done you wrong. He had been good right? So there! ❤️click to expand