Posted by AquarellePosted by TinnedglassPosted by AquarellePosted by TinnedglassPosted by AquarellePosted by TinnedglassPosted by ClassyAquariusPosted by colliding99
stalk her and text her every 5 minutes
@Tinnedglass I strongly don't recommend that. But I would recommend to put more attention-text her more often, ask her out more often. And be more affectionate. You will quickly get if she's interested.
I remember I was daiting one Pisces guy. I really liked him but he didn't like me haha so you have chances
Ive tried that at the very first and she would get irritated and do the vanishing thing. Since ive stopped demanding anything out of her, she has gotten more responsive, like she stopped flaking on me and replies to my texts most of the times. At the very least i think im gaining a good friend and that is sorth of cool too you know?
Are you sure she is open to a relationship? Personally, if I dont see myself in a relationship with someone (yet), I dont like it if someone comes on to me. The fact that she reacted irritated, tells me she didnt want you to come on strong at that point. When you stopped doing it, she probably felt less pressure. People usually open up easier without pressure. Friendship is so important for us and we take a long time to open up. But you have the patience to hang in there. One of my friends is Aqua too and she had been friends with a Pisces for over 20 years. He asked for a relationship but she declined. ..they remained good friends though. Eventually he became very sick. She took care of him till the end and even married him at his request...I will never forget the spark in his eyes on their wedding day.
So, you never know where life will take you
That's a beautiful story.
She has mentioned she doesn't have much experience in relationships and ponders what it would be like, and then she does this thing with her nose, makes me melt right there.
I just texted her, asking to go with me to my family's farm outside of town in a couple of weeks. If she agrees thatd be our first trip, yey!
So yeah however our relationship turns out, im just glad to have met her. I will still order my thoughts and ask her about where we stand, so i know if i must move on romantically speaking or not. And yeah there will prolly be a period of adjustment if she declines, but i know how to be a friend too, so it will be ok.
Thanks for your input.
Hmmm...it could be that she is dropping hints....when she says she ponders about relationships....aw that is so sweet that thing about her nose. ..I think its great you invited her! Her response will tell you at least something. Oh another thing: dont just ask her where you stand. It can make her feel like she has to make the decision about this relationship, putting pressure on her. If she likes you a lot, she may need to hear about your feelings too, for reassurement and to know that you are serious about it.
She said yes, in her very aquarian way. Its funny, anyone else would understand her yesses as noes.
And yeah, ill write what i want to say and memorize it, it's hard to keep my words to the point. I'll have a hard time getting a word in though, the first couple of times we went out the conversation would go 50/50. Now she has become really talkative, talks about lots of stuff, she is so witty. I don't mind, i find it.. cute.
Are you sure it was a "yes" then? Lol. I hope so. Sounds like you are on the right track. Yeah we can be talkative when comfortable...its looking good. I hope you both enjoy your trip!!click to expand