What is your sign? He said he was confused between you and her? Just let him go, If he makes the mistak once shame on him.. make the mistake twice.. shame on you. Tell him that you are done and that you wish only to be friends. Let him feel let down. Caps are about the BOTTOM LINE.. so tell him " The bottom line is, neither of us is ready for a relationship and I would much rather be friends either way." Watch how fast he makes up his mind. If its only been a couple weeks him n his ex broke up .. I would definetly NOT get involved with him right now. Only because he still is holding on to all the good things they had and he forgets about the bad!!