Honestly he and I have talked through some things and everything that I thought might be bothering him is what he was stressing about. I have some horrid trust issues and people pleaser issues due to past traumas and we are generally very open with each other. I just told him again that I panic when he goes quiet because I had 2 previous exes who cheated and that was how they acted when they were feeling guilty. It's an internal struggle for me and I am in therapy to work through it and get past it.
My aqua man is very understanding when I explain how I'm feeling and why. We honestly can talk about anything without getting upset with each other. Just wasn't sure how to approach it when I'm freaking out inside ya know?