Posted by Aquaman2Posted by rayofhopePosted by Aquaman2Posted by rayofhope
Hey all. Um.. so ..i remebered a few days ago that i posted up in here asking for advise to understand my then fiance now husband( let the eyerolls begin) better. A little update would be i have a 3 yr old son with him and ...the one thing that is distroying my marrige now is that he had an affair with his close family member til my son was 6 months old..and..ofc i cant get over that till now. So..im in such a rut that i wana leave him but i cant bare my son having to deal with the drama of it all. Question for other aqua men out there....does a love affair die out? Or one sight of her and all those feelings are back? Also..can they be faithfull again? Ive become a jealous, suspicious wife now with a bad temper and anixity...he has clearly told me to my face and our parents that he doesnt want me coz of me being suspicious and all that. They tell me its just his anger talking and that i need to give him time to cool down. I dont know if he means it or not. Pls help me understand and deal with this issue...
No it won't die out, one sight of her can surely melt him again. But yes they can be faithful to you. They will never reveal that, sight of her has made their heart and mind move again. They will control themselves and store everything inside them. Yes you can probably trust him bc he will never do anything that will harm you or your feelings.
That is exactly what happened..i noticed something was off ...he was more interested in her than usual but he never seemed like that for a long time. So..he was impacted by her but didnt show me. Thats why i thought he was over her. And then it started comming up? Or was i just paranoid?
It would be better if you share other placements too.
It didn't suddenly started coming up, it was always there.
But this is all for me, he is much older and very much matured, he probably should not be having feelings for her. So calm down!!click to expand