So I met this Gemini guy on dating app. We had 4 interesting and exciting dates with loads of conversations. He would text me every time thanking for a great time together. He initiated all dates and kept in touch daily. I was invited to spend Christmas with his family so I got to meet his parents and sister. Then I accepted his invite to spend winter holidays together in his mountain hut. All events happened within a month since we started texting, way too fast. On our trip at first things went really well, I met his friends, we got along but then all of sudden he started acting distant and paid more attention to his mates than me. We’ve had sex for the first time and it was wonderful but it’s either I overthink things or he started losing interest after. During the day in public he would treat me with no special attention but at night behind closed doors be very passionate and talk about how much he likes me. On our last day in the mountains I’ve had an incident and we rushed to the hospital where we’ve spent about 5 hours while doctors were checking my injury. He was patient, supported me, gave me kisses. Later helped me with all the routine, gave medicine and etc. Drove me back home and checked on me over the phone for a couple days. But I can tell that something is off. He’s no longer as interested and invested as he used to. He fell sick that’s why we haven’t seen each other since our return. His texting manner is no longer playful and charming. He asked if I needed anything and I responded that I needed him but he simply ignored it.
So is this a typical behavior of someone who got what he wanted too fast, too soon or it has something to do with Gemini nature and their duality? Cause I can literally tell it’s like 2 different men: the one who was courting (shy, delicate, attentive, flirty, willing to please) and the one who he is now (cold, distant, unresponsive). Any advice how to deal with this situation in my favor ? I really fell for him.