Posted by heliumfiasco
I have a serious issue with being the person who does this. It's ruined my relationships prior.
I'm not sure if its an insecurity thing or what. I feel very confident, but im always super curious about a lovers past and I dig or ask and then allow what I find to change my perspective of them and our relationship.
I got into a huge fight with my BF on NYE because I found out that last year (right before we began dating) he was hooking up with a 23 year old bartender from a restaurant he used to frequent. I guess she would text him constantly after he cut he situation short. He is 37. I was so turned off by his behavior that I was actually disgusted. I just didnt view him as that type of person.
Its my least appealing quality and odd that you posted this topic now, because I was going to make one similar.