It's all pretty random without your actual chart. For example what do you value? What does your 2nd house look like? What planets are aspecting what planets there? Is there a void? There's either more going on that you aren't seeing or you're a petty narcissist. I know that sounds harsh, but I don't believe it's true.
The idea that you have no chance with a Capricorn is hard to agree with. A Capricorn might see you as someone who can support his dreams, and keep the house clean at the same time.
Is it possible you just haven't been inspired yet? The world is pretty messed up right now. I have a hard time believing that at some point in the near future everyone isn't going to see something they want to help fix.