UPDATE: him and I talked, and this was the convo
Him: I have needs, and you are cute sue me
Me: If sex is all you want rn (which is okay but I can't do casual sex) then lmk so I can stop liking you
Him: my needs != casual sex
Me: Ok then what are your needs?
Him: Basic things from a relationship
Me: okay then what do you want from me specifically? To be friends? relationship? or need more time?
Him: I like you as more than a friend, but Im trying to see how compatible we are. Also, I have to restrict myself because I don't want to make you uncomfortable. The last time we cuddled I had fu*k my d*ck away
me: Oh yeah you were breathing really hard in my neck, I had no clue tbh.
