Posted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by PhantumPosted by 7thHousePosted by Phantum
I'm gonna spill something. Aquas are the ones who do the bro code thing.
Do you think she's already put in a certain category hence his response to her? I have to think that men do it more often than not. They meet someone or have someone in their lives and they already know if the person is a friend, lover or potential lover, or someone they would marry.
This comment was in reference to something I said in another thread recently. I figured if anyone noticed that post and remembered it, this would make them laugh.
To answer your question, I do think that a lot of men put women in categories right away, but that's only because I read it here. Dating was a completely different beast when I was doing it.
Ooohhh I didn't see that thread at all.
I wondered about this because you mentioned "bro code" and it reminded me of a friend I have who's treating another female friend like they are really close and the girl was falling for it. However, he wouldn't take it further than friendship because he said he sees her as a friend and that's about it. He wouldn't cross that line.
I would say that's the opposite of bro code. That's a guy actually having a conscience. I was referring to the act of trying to convince a poster here on this site that the dude she's asking about is on the up and up, when he clearly is shady, because of some kind of sign loyalty.click to expand