Posted by frozenintimePosted by jeane
passion wasn't there for me in an instant. i wasn't even attracted to him but i liked him as a person. he seemed like a kind, good hearted person. he made me laugh. no fanny flutters.
then slowly over time he grew on me. the more i got to know him the more attractive he became and the more enamoured i was with him. it got to the point that i became obsessed and there was an unidentifiable something between us. even now it's hard to explain. it was like a sense that i needed to be with this man.
being a libra i went backwards and forwards - did i really like him? do i really find him attractive? yes/no/maybe. is this something i want? will i change my mind? will he disappoint me when it all wears off? can i really commit to him and all that he brings? it was a more cerebral experience than anything else.
even the long term thing i didn't know until maybe about 6 months in? that's when my feelings really started to come to the party.
I have to agree the only time I fell hard before took me about 6 months In and I was very back and fourth but I also have a few Libra placements
But, idk maybe I am second guessing everything and I am also scared because he has never had his heart broke and he seems fragile.click to expand