Posted by NykkjenPosted by frozenintimePosted by NykkjenPosted by frozenintime
How long does it take you in a relationship to know if you want it long term?
Or how long in do you feel like you fall in love?
I’m in a relationship for 3 months. We are like best friends, have no fights or issues. But I feel like the “spark” isn’t there like something is missing? But there’s nothing wrong and he treats me good. I feel guilty for feeling this and trying to give it a fair amount of time.
I care about him and I obviously enjoy his company but... just something isn’t there.
I deeply crave passion in relationships...
Maybe it's just me, but I would take a deep and good relationship that's steady, and with no drama over passion. I guess it depends on if you're looking for something longer-term versus shorter-term. Passion is sort of a vague term. Are you physically attracted to him and he you? Because that would indeed me an issue from my pov.
We have attraction towards one another.
He was crazy about me for 2 years before dating so I know it’s for sure on his side and I do as well maybe just not to the extent he has for me. But I have pondered sometimes slow and steady wins the race
If it took you two years to come around, -something- about the man doesn't work for you. It's impossible for any of us to say what that might be, but if it took two years, something isn't working.click to expand