Hey you, just try to express some feelings some time. Like, I think you look nice. Or, thanks for spending time with me. I enjoyed it. Little things like that go a long way.
This thing I describe above is more of a friends with bennies situation, and even hi cutie can be enough to make me smile. A little hand holding and touching isn't so bad either. If you let your guard down just a little, you will get so much more in return. :-) Try it and see what happens. This is from a very strong, smart, independent Aries women if that puts things in context for you.