Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write this, sincerely appreciated.
I have taken it all on board. I hadn't been back on here to check for more messages, as he had become quite regular in communication... Until he dropped a HUGE love bomb on me 8 days ago, telling me he wanted me to trust him, that he loved me, he wanted us to go the distance etc (this is all over message!!wtf?!) he was immediate with replies, often initiating, being loving for days!
He continued being happy and chatty for 2 days, then has disappeared again, this time its 5 days. But its his biggest love bomb yet! I have left him alone, but it does annoy me. I did come clean 2 weeks ago, telling him it made me feel out to sea when he was so inconsistent... he said its just ebbs and flows, that life isn't all about the highs. This also annoyed me, because thats not what I think at all!! He's really gotten under my skin big time, and I guess I am annoying myself, as I am not usually like this with a man (being Taurean myself!). So frustrating. I have tried to cut him lose as I don't think he is good for me, I don't recognise this obsessive me. I ask him if he needs space or a break in contact and he gets annoyed?
You are right, we have built a friendship, and thats the best way to go, if we continue. I just wish he wouldn't love bomb me with his deep beautiful words, telling me he loves me etc as he sucks me in to this comfortable beautiful place, then it leaves me feeling abandoned. He is Taurus sun, Virgo moon, Aries mercury, Gemini venus, Mars Gemini, Lilith Scorpio.
May I ask you...: VIG....if they do not like clingy, why would he tell me to message without thought or worry? Also, is it true that they are more likely to cheat? This is what so many people are telling me!
We have a great mental connection, I know we are drawn to each other. Thats why he's so hard to let go of.