Posted by MaraiPosted by xtra1990Posted by Marai
It seems hes not ready to take responsibility for his life, why on earth would he take responsibility and take care of a relationship.
He shouldnt be with someone, and take this time to work on himself.
I do know she suggested counseling.
My question is though...does he want back in and he was just being macho when he told our cousins "whatever", or does he really not care? If he doesn't care, fine. But if he does and he may be sabotaging again I want to get him some help so he can break this pattern.
Does it matter though?
He needs to get help for himself either way. And not because the need to save the relationship. It's a wrong reason to go into therapy.click to expand