yeah, i'm with one now and that sounds like him. it's hard to pin down his motives exactly and he SEEMS like he doesn't care. Even though it's easy to tell if you focus on it hard enough cus he just wants me around (for "no real" reason). I'm having trouble with the whole being distant and aloof thing.
He just talks to me when HE wants to. or we go out when HE wants to. It's partially stupid, but i guess understandable if he's only thinking about himself. So i figure when he doesn't talk to me then just not bother him, until I actually NEED to talk to him or he wants to talk to/share something with me. Anything like that happen to you?