Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by Mamita91Posted by AbbyNormal
Scorpios are all about trust and you flat out called him a liar! You need to apologize if you really care for him and want something real. Scorpio is going to get quiet when they feel that bond breaking. You’re just really not trying for a relationship if you so easily try and jump ship. He needs a ride or die. Are you ready for that?? If you aren’t ready for something serious, don’t play with his heart. He picked you, now you need to trust that. Scorpios make good on their word but they also need you to be patient for the right time. You rushing things isn’t going to help at all. You need to be more considerate and let go of the idea of control. Go with the flow and stay positive.
I know :/ I don't know hwo to say it without it seeming like I'm overthinking it all. He invited me several time and then backtracked when I tried to suggest times to see him, which hurt me. It wasnt an invitation like he led out to be, and it hurt me but I want to move on from it and not let it get between us. What should I say?
If you can’t trust that he actually does want what he says he wants, ie. to spend time with you, I’d say cut ties. You can’t always have things on your time, compromises must be made to accommodate both parties. Relationships are a two way street. Just because he said he can’t do it on the times you suggested doesn’t mean he can’t at all. It just means he has other things to take care of and think about. Relationships can be very distracting, particularly early on, and it’s probably something that requires his full attention. Realize you can’t rush things because he may not function at the same rate or even the same way as you do.
If you do want to try and reset, I’d apologize to him about getting emotional but tell him seeing him again would make you very happy and that you are willing to work with him on a time that works for the both of you. Just try to be more considerate of his time and feelings. Then keep yourself busy. There are always things we can work on to improve upon ourselves. The more you can bring to the table, the better. The more high maintenance you are, like breaking up with him because your feelings got hurt, the more it will cause space between you two. Take responsibility for your emotions and actions and don’t do things to just try and get your way. Treat him as you would want to be treated. Then if he doesn’t come through it’s on him, it’s not like you weren’t at your best!click to expand