Posted by ooru-u
Your a libra which rules relationships/7th house. But your south node is in the 7th house in Scorpio with Neptune - the south node is stuff you've over developed on a soul level - so Libra energies. You are going to gravitate to believing you need relationships to feel whole but for some reason it will be perceived by you as tough. Astrology says it is best to try to realize the other side - self development. But, most of your planets are in 5, 6, and 7, so you will have to live through relationships, somewhat. How to balance these 2 needs?
A relationship which helps you develop yourself and not be in a codependent relationship is probably best. Your mars (what you are attracted to) is in a fire sign (leo), and the fire signs are all in water houses (4,8,12). A red-blooded blunt straight ahead Aries man offends most Libra women but you could learn much from this straight ahead approach, at least short term. A less passionate mate for you would probably be Gemini. It will be tough for you. You are kind of karmically trapped.