Posted by pooface222Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Hi all, I want to make this as short as possible to avoid confusion so I’ll just start out with the question
Do Aries men usually keep coming back ?
I met an Aries man a year ago and things didn’t work out it was mainly inconsistency he would become reclusive and then I would walk away thinking he wasn’t interested and then he would message me asking me why I walked away and it would just become a cycle and We’ve never really lost contact since then we kinda drift apart and then back together
Recently He told me the reason he was reluctant before was because he was going to move away and he didn’t wanna start something serious with me and then have to leave me if I wasn’t interested in going with him or he would think I’m just better off without him
He said he needed to be honest with me and say he did not give it his all in the past and he is sorry for that
I told him let’s just give it time before we’re sure about each other and he told me he is all in because he isn’t planning on moving away anymore
This would all be great if he wasn’t so difficult to read
I cannot physically see him yet due to COVID 19 restrictions So it’s mainly texting, but he always seems so distant and it’s like I have to carry the conversation
He really isn’t a technology person so I guess that could be to blame for his bad texting
I’m just frustrated because I feel like he tells me he wants things to work out between us and he doesn’t want to be with anyone beside me
But then he doesn’t show it
Do Aries men typically act this way ? Like are they usually more open in person or what ?
I was married to an Aries man.
He was also very difficult to read. Very closed too. However he had a great sense of humour, very funny, and a lot of energy and drive and enthusiasm like a typical Aries Man.
However, I had to do ALOT of the communicating with him, and it was draining sometimes. If he had an issue with me he would go silent, and pretend he was fine.
He would sulk. Something I find irritating and childish!
I really had to work hard with him to find out what was wrong, otherwise I'd end up with an entire DAY (usually a Saturday), of Silent Treatment!!
So for you I think you're going to have to be patient with him and take your time getting to know him, then you may get used to him bring like that, and handle him how you feel is best.
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