Posted by sweetheartsPosted by hbbrnaqua
What happened before you didn't have contact anymore, and what did you tell him after 6 weeks?
would love to know since I might be in a similar situation xPosted by sweethearts
Sooo slow to act on everything. Doesn’t open up a great deal about past present and future, could be just mine but very guarded.
At first, I was in a spin because I like everything sorted and out in the open. I want to know everything yesterday, but I’m a control freak and right now I’m enjoying being more relaxed. We had no contact for about 6 weeks and I thought he wouldn’t be back... plus, I have a few things on my agenda and need to get it all sorted.
Of course, I could possibly be just mirroring him 😉 and he’s not on the hook yet.
This guy is the real deal and would only entertain a relationship. We haven’t met yet and had been chatting for a couple months. He has 3 kids 50/50 and works 3 alternate shifts, week by week. So a really busy life and hard worker. I pushed to meet and said he was giving off mixed signals. So, he thought about it for 30 minutes and came back and said, let’s leave it here because he doesn’t want to give me mixed signals in a way I was relieved, because I was feeling way too involved and I was only focusing on messaging him. This new world is making people/me feel desperate and lonely.
The 6 weeks, was good therapy. I got back to me but still pined the connection. I went away on a girls trip and woke to the sound of his text... I have a special text sound for him 😀 (tweet) I had drunk texted him the night before, just saying I missed him.
He’s been messaging me since. I’m not so clingy or obsessive anymore. I really feel this guy is worth waiting for, in his time. I’m also very social, so my life isn’t on hold... and if we do get together, I know intuitively there will be no going back. So I’m going to keep enjoying my world. I also live right in the city and he’s in the suburbs 30-40 minutes away.
Long story short, there are some out there that Jump full on into sex and then decide whether they want anything more... I think, this one wants to decide first and then move forward if he feels he wants to pursue. I get the feeling his marriage may have ended in infidelity but Pisces hasn’t opened up about that and I wouldn’t push it.click to expand