Posted by Winters12 Posted by sweethearts Posted by Winters12 Posted by sweethearts
I feel sorry for you, this woman has you so twisted. You’ve thrown away your marriage and your children and you’ll never be enough for her. You can’t fix her and the sooner you see that you might be able to fix yourself and your own family.
Go see a councillor yourself, you do seem like a half decent guy.
I think I have come to the conclusion that me and my current partner will not work out she is all about her children not interested in mine and I put my all into her children . Because we are supposed to be taking time out she has separated mine and her children where as before they use to see each other every weekend . She has told me since they haven’t been seeing each other and staying over night etc they have been different children I.e better behaved now don’t get me wrong when all the kids are together they are a night mare but you make do because if you want to be with someone bad enough that’s what you do.
I said how will our future work out tho because if our children need to be away from each other now how on Earth are we ever going to live together.
She said they will be a lot older by then and when she said my kids start seeing hers again it will be when we go out on day trips and not at her house because she doesn’t want things getting dirty in her house and all this I don’t see a future here someone correct me if I’m wrong?
She had this massive problem like two weeks ago if any of you have seen my previous posts that My oldest daughter who’s with me full time who is from a relationship when I was 17 before my other two daughters and said she likes girls well my partner said I don’t want her around my child That is 8 years old and encouraging her to also be gay I understand to some point that she is just being a parent trying to protect her child however my daughter has the right to be what the fuck she wants .
My ex partner however (Sag like me) is still in the back ground seeing my oldest daughter as she was in her life for 8 years and I also have another two daughters with my ex so she stay around every now and then too see her siblings.
My current partner hates that she is still seeing her .
My ex partner said she broke off with this guy she was seeing because he didn’t like the fact she was still seeing my daughter but she said if you don’t like it I’m sorry we can’t be together so now there not also my ex partner excepts the fact my daughter wants to be what ever she wants to be.
Here’s the problem I cannot see a future now with my current partner (Gem) because of a lot of these things going on .
However I hurt my ex who I literally now know I had everything with the family life everything I just messed up thinking the grass was greener on the other side when in fact I should of respected the mother of my children. Since being with my partner she has opened my eyes to a lot of my wrong doings towards my ex partner and what I should and shouldn’t of done now I know.
Didn’t you also say that your ex and your relationship was really bad?
Get away from your current partner, seriously, everything you’ve said about her, she’s selfish and manipulative and doesn’t sound at all like a decent person. I can’t see how you can’t see it. Surely as you are writing everything down it’s smacking you in the face the type of person you are dealing with.
Are you thinking about trying to reconcile with your ex? You cheated on her with this other lady didn’t you?
When I say it was bad really I was bad it was my fault okay she wasn’t perfect like always on her phone not sitting next to each other on the night times I was just sat playing PlayStation not really interested I thought I could do what the fuck I wanted when I wanted but I was wrong I was out of order and everything that has happened since for my ex is all my fault she is in a way still sticking by me And my daughter even tho I have hurt her I felt like there was no escape from my past relationship with her as it become routine and I was moaning a lot at her for being on her phone for not cooking tea when I would come home from work and she be at home with the kids etc a lot of things like that but what I should of done was taking some time out not met a new person who I can now see doesn’t seem right for me or my kids .
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You need to work on yourself, be on your own for a while. Work out what you really want and need but don’t go jumping back to the ex right now because it’s gone sour with the other lady. Don’t put your ex through more heart ache or your children for that matter, it’s you that needs to figure out yourself.
You’ve jumped from the frying pan to the fire and now you’re thinking of jumping back into the frying pan??
Work on yourself, figure you out and then after that if you still think you want her back then court her all over again. Not by jumping in bed or back into the home, go out together on dates and spend time getting to know each other again, and fall back in love.
