Virgo Sun+Moon man, I don't know what to do

BTW... He's not looking at you as the FWB type. That's huge. With you it's either all or none. Know that
He's not going to sleep with you without some real connection or sincere relationship. And truthfully you don't want him to. Once you're placed in that category there's no coming out of there. You could win the lottery and offer marriage and he still wouldn't be interested. So... Just something to think about.