Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Gem03Posted by GemCurioThe1
I will share the insight because we Virgos can be difficult to figure out. The truth is initially he had no desire to ruin the friendship because we Virgos value our friends for life. We have people we can call after 5 years and it's like time never passed by at all. This in itself is very dear and precious to us because we don't trust people easily.
You stood firm in the fact that you wanted a relationship or nothing at all. He forced himself to accept that and after a time learned that he couldn't be happy in a world without you in it. So he contacted you because his heart longed for your voice and presence.
And now you shared a kiss which could potentially change the entire dynamic of the relationship. He has no desire to lose you but has fears that getting in an intimate relationship with you might not work.
If you're a Gemini, you're fully aware how you and your Virgo can talk for hours never get bored, and he actually keeps up with the conversation. Also, he doesn't mind how often you change the subject. It's beautiful. So why would he risk losing that , losing you because by nature intimacy complicates things??
Does he have feelings for you?? Yes. Deep feelings that can not be replaced. Is he willing to risk losing a real friend on a chance for a intimate relationship which may or may not work??? Maybe... Maybe not..
Before October he told me he loved me (twice) I only responded with a heart emoji and he asked if I loved him or not. I said no because I don't love him and lying to him about something as precious as that is deceptive. I feel like it hurt him to some extent.
To be honest, when I cut him off in October I never could have imagined he would reach out again. He is a virgo sun+moon+venus. Hard-headed and stubborn, easily able to cut people off, but he reached out and came back.
Then when we talked this month, he said very hurtful things, tried tearing me apart, when I asked what I did to hurt him. He said "I'm not hurt I am irritated."
Now we only talk if I initiate, I don't know what to do to get him back.
Let's be honest. You hurt him with the truth and it's all his ego. He will forgive it in time. We Virgos can marry the devil as long as he/she deals honestly with us, so I wouldn't worry about it too much. We're also very forgiving.
Being a Gemini, us your special powers that always work in your favor to get what you want. It works on us too, even though most of us will never admit it. Use your humor and your charming communication skills. Send him really funny memes... Tell him something in your own words like.. "I miss you booger face.." Then follow it with... "You're starting to piss me off!!"
Something like that in your own words will break the ice and open the door for communication. Then just have a sincere conversation.click to expand