20 pages to discuss how clear deception is or isn't deception.
Engaging someone on a dating platform to seek any kind of intimacy -> you have to spell out where anything about you deviates from the norm of what people expect.
You're married? Cool, write it in your profile. You're HIV positive? Same You're into polyamory? Same
The burden isn't on the other person to guess and if you tell them and they opt out, you don't get to feel disrespected. I mean you get to feel whatever the treetrunk you want. You don't get to act as if someone is inflicting disrespect on you, trying to make them feel guilty for their failure to comply to your delusion/manipulation.