Posted by Centaur12
Here is what I have learned, my situation is different to yours however I am a Sagittarius male with a Gemini woman.
My Gem has an ex partner who she was on and off with for years as he also is a Sag male.
She has two young children with him and they two years ago never went back to eachother as he is an alcoholic and use to smash her house up with the children there and also want to come back to her house kicking her door in every weekend etc.
However she did sleep with him last October time 2019 she did say she made a mistake and stopped it right away being true or not I don't know nor do I care as that was before we was together we got together in December 2019.
The worry does come across my mind that she will eventually end up back there with him as they have children together etc who knows? I hope not as I love her.
She has also told me she loves me never felt this way before never had a connection in the bedroom like this before wants to marry me.
But then I get from her I wouldn't marry you right now because of whats gone on lately in the relationship etc.
I get the vibe that my partner wants me and that life together and the other half she wants her independence and I would never strip her of that it would just mean a different thing.
A gemini is repersented by the twins one twin wants one thing and the other wants something else this is why they are so dam hard to tie down or figure out what they want so usually they shoot there self in the foot.
There's no doubt he loves you or would of loved you. He just doesn't no what he wants, hasn't figured it out for him self and if you think he is the one or whatever you want to call it then be the person he's afraid to loose but do not let him walk all over you at the same time.
Me and my partner I am still trying to figure her out we are always hot and cold strange really as being a Sag I am full of adventure and she also being a gem is as well, however she gets some bad mood swings and it let's her down and I also question alot if she really loves and cares about me the way she says as one minuet she's all over me and the next she can be quiet reserved and cold.