Posted by blackphvsePosted by twigletPosted by blackphvsePosted by twigletPosted by blackphvsePosted by twigletPosted by blackphvsePosted by twigletPosted by blackphvse
Wow.. getting his family to do his dirty work.. and this is a grown man with children?? He needs to grow some balls and get his head screwed on right. Too many games and he sounds like a spineless coward. Don't keep letting him back in. He won't stop this behaviour cause you are allowing it and it's too late to correct it now. Forget him, you're better off without that bs. I'd have been gone as soon as his family starting getting involved in your personal lives.
And for the record, we ain't all like that. haha
I know my mum said the same! His family have harrassed me to the point where ive had to involve the police and change my number, they contacted my children and allsorts! My mum did no better though, she took all his clothes from my house and threw them all over his work place yard whilst screaming at him!
Its been an insane year with him lol bit like a soap opera really!
Daymn, yeah it sounds like things have gotten a bit messy. Relationships like this do not provide much happiness, just a lot of drama, headaches and heartache. My best advice would be to completely detach from this relationship. I'm not sure how old your children are, but think of them.. would you want to see them in a relationship like this? I bet they don't want to see you in this sort of relationship either. Gain the strength to walk away, even if it's just to set an example for your children. That's a great reason on it's own right there. Children see their parents putting up with behaviour like that and it can set a standard as to how they accept to be treated in relationships as well. Show them that they deserve more, because you do too!
Theyre both adults but youre right they dont like the way he has been treating me as ive raised them both to respect women above all else so they see me being treated like that and they hate it! I am trying to move on and up to now he can only contact me via the dating app or by coming to my house, i have him blocked everywhere else and changed my phone number!
These type don't seem to care about or respect what blocking means. They will find a way to contact you at all costs. I went through this with my ex as well. Broke up a year and a half ago, he still makes fake emails to try and contact me. The hard part is continuing to keep the door shut through all of his attempts to get you back. Stay strong and don't believe his "I changed" bs, cause that will come too. We only get one life, choose a path that makes you happy!
I had a message request today from his partners friend asking me if we are talking, i just dont get left alone! He doesnt do the ive changed thing with me he uses emotions, every time, i am trying this time though, he has been making fake profiles on the dating app to ask me what im up to, ive just been blocking them, so believe me im trying! Ive never had to deal with this kind of thing before, all my other exes walked away and was done, why the hell is this one being so difficult lol! I have truly never been in this position before.
I feel your pain girl. I never had an ex like that either until my most recent. A year and a half later and he still doesn't leave me alone. Partly my fault because I did open the door a crack when he faked a life threatening illness (cause I felt bad for him). There is no limit to the crazy ass butter they will pull to get your attention, don't buy it. And don't make my mistake, ya don't want him still bugging you after a year and a half, it fkn sucks. Trust me. Escape while you can.
Yea i don't want him spoiling any other potential relationship i could have, most people can be put off by exes, i can't believe you're faked an illness!! What is wrong with people, beggars belief. I hope you're in a better place yourself, thank-you for your advice today it's much appreciated and it's also good to see im not alone with crazy ex! I blame 2020 for mine lol.
You're not alone girl. And you're right, it can and will spoil future potential relationships. I haven't even been able to begin the dating process again after being single a year and a half cause my ex is still determined not to be left in my past. I don't want that baggage still trying to follow me when I finally meet someone decent. Best advice I can give is to keep that door shut.. no matter what he throws at you to try and win you back, keep in mind all the drama and turmoil he has caused you. Do whatever you have to in order to remind yourself that this wasn't worth it.click to expand