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Posted by Libra4rmTX
I would let her be for now bro. Try not to stress yourself out. This situation goes different for us all. Ill just say that I cant handle those type of situations. I feel like its immature to be in a relationship with someone but not want to contact them. Tbh its part of what killed my relationship with my sons mom.

Its a few things I see her that were red flags for me. But I just dont wanna be that person here. However I will say I dont feel like youre being treated fairly in this and tbh this could become habitual behavior from her.


Speak your heart. Tell her what and how this makes you feel. She cant use that " this is a front" excuse. Dont let her use that. And decide what your bottom line is too. Withholding communication is some treetrunked up butter and she knows exactly what she is doing.

I wish you the best and please dont take my post as advice but rather an angle to look at

Thanks

This is exactly what I am saying its immature games and I do not want this.
I love her and we are brilliant together me and her when these stupid things happen it just ruins it.
There's no pleasing her at all.

I do not get why she can't just stop with these stupid things.
She says she wants the perfect life with me etc no life is perfect but she wants marriage and maybe a child later on with me but all she is showing me is she is not going to be able to handle it especially when she is walking out now.
Also brings makes me think when what she told me about her ex partner who she has the two children with that he use to get drunk and walk out on her every weekend.
Was it him or was it her starting it and kicking him out 🤔.
Makes you wonder.

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I wouldnt think about that part too much tho I understand why you would think that.

Maybe she is still undecided about things. Making a family with ppl other than the parent can be tricky. Whatever the case, communication would help. Her silently making decisions is not healthy for what ysll are trying to build.