Posted by sweethearts
Wow, I don’t know how you do it but yes leave the phone alone now, it’s just pure torture for you.
Looks like you are happy enough to accept he has you and her and you can live your life that way as long as he comes home to you. ( makes me wonder if he leaves his phone around for you to read it... that way both you and his gf accept his double life ) 🤔
It does sound like he loves you both and he’s comfortable, very comfortable living with the best of both worlds.
The only thing I urge you to do is tuck away a little bit of cash just in case your world comes crashing down one day out of the blue. Just enough to set you and the kids up on your own into another place where you can breathe.
i think this is the best advice.
you're happy with him, despite the existence of other woman. i say accept her presence and enjoy your life with him. i think you get a lot from this relationship. embrace it and try to put her out of your mind. often the little lies we tell ourselves get us through the day. maybe just accept that her being in his life is the price you have to pay to be with him.
but do put some cash away! you don't want the rug puled out from under you once those kids are grown.
