Posted by sweethearts
Hmmm 🤔 my gut instinct to him getting you to “look for a house” is to move you from the family home so you and the kids will be sorted and out and that no longer ties him to the marital home.
Is he talking down sizing and/or looking in a different area?
Not sure he’d totally dupe you and the law won’t allow it, however, the law will freeze assets ie: property, bank accounts etc should there be a separation and especially if it’s nasty. This is why you need some money aside.. just in case.
There are two sides to any split, the Head & the Heart. Time to start thinking with the Head!
Your heart will only lead you to more misery and paralysed you!