Posted by ATGR Posted by thatlibralife Posted by geminiwithataurusman Posted by sweethearts
Wow, I don’t know how you do it but yes leave the phone alone now, it’s just pure torture for you.
Looks like you are happy enough to accept he has you and her and you can live your life that way as long as he comes home to you. ( makes me wonder if he leaves his phone around for you to read it... that way both you and his gf accept his double life ) 🤔
It does sound like he loves you both and he’s comfortable, very comfortable living with the best of both worlds.
The only thing I urge you to do is tuck away a little bit of cash just in case your world comes crashing down one day out of the blue. Just enough to set you and the kids up on your own into another place where you can breathe.
Thank you sweethearts. He doesn't know I have his code. So he leaves it thinking its "safe". Thank you for the advice about the saving some money. I did look at the phone and he made sure to "check in" with her everyday we were on our trip. UNBELIEVABLE. The last text I saw was him telling her this morning "The pictures I take with her is like standing next to my co worker, let me handle things over here, everything I tell you is everything that I am. You have me. Just handling this for a little more. I'm not building with you just because. I don't build with anyone for nothing."
This mofo still found time to check in every fucking day we were gone.
“Just handling this for a little more”...
This sounds like he’s getting ready to divorce you...or something else? It’s eerie how he’s sure to praise you to everyone looking but dogs you to her. He’s plotting...
You better wake up now before it’s too late...
Sounds like he’s maybe waiting until the kids are old enough so he doesn’t have to pay maintenance, for example.
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Thank you ATGR. "Waiting for the kids are old enough", my sister just recently said this "I do think he loves you but he is also waiting for the kids to get older so its less guilt maybe, you know him, he would never want to be without his children, since they were born, he has been with them everyday of their life, he is not going to miss out on that, being with his children every single day. Not him."
That to me seems like yes he is onl here for the kids, fuck me! But again I have known him since we were kids so I do know that he loves me and cares, thats what is messing me up but this woman he fucking can't stop talking to!
