Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by sweetheartsPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by sweethearts
Why do you want to sleep with your Mumma??
And I need advice on how I handle this. I have zero interest in anyone that is more than 10 years younger than me. As I get older, I feel I don’t have any more time to be playing around I’ve had my fun and now I am only looking for serious long term.
Now my approach or rather my response probably needs work. I’m Libra and always try to be considerate of others feelings.
Example: A week ago, I was in the local hardware store (Bunnings)which I frequently visit (not anymore.. I’m now going 10ks out of my way to another)
Young guy from my home country I’ve chatted to several times over the years asking for help finding things. He’s always waves out when I’m in (once a month or more frequent if I have a home project happening) haven’t seen him in a while so as he was helping me locate something again, he asks if I’m single and when I said yes asked if I’m on fb… I tried to say Instagram because there’s too much personal info on fb. So feeling put on the spot I give him my fb name. He adds me right there and then… I didn’t pull out my phone and didn’t excepted it or open it.. today I get notification he’s trying to message me 🤦🏼♀️ now I can never go back to that store again 😂
I’ve said before in other circumstances, you’re too young. There’s always a come back.
Is the best approach to lie and say, I have someone? I’ve said it before to a friend of a friend but I’m not good handling lies.
Am I manifesting all wrong?
The stupid tarot cards always say keep your mind open but seriously, I have no interest in entertaining anyone I feel is too young.
You clearly have issues with holding your ground. There is absolutely no need to lie. Who cares if they want to come back with a million reasons why your should give them a chance, if you tell someone "you're ass is too young" then mean it and keep it movin' with a polite "thank you very much for the compliment, you just made my day, however it's still gonna be a NO for me". Say it with the sweetest smile if that makes your Leeb bits feel better, just say what you mean and mean what you say.
Manifesting all wrong? I don't think so. Seems like you need to be okay with the "uncomfortable" feeling of rejecting someone flat out. I mean you didn't even want to give this man your FB info, yet felt pressured to do so? Un huh. Work that out. You don't owe anyone anything. No explanation beyond "sorry it's a pass" and most certainly don't owe anyone a web of lies to make them feel nice and "loved" inside because God forbid they get rejected by someone.
No you’re exactly right. I do have a problem with being direct and holding my ground. It’s not the first time I’ve put myself into this type of situation and it goes from what should end there to dragging on and me having to work a way out.
It such a curious thing, because you often give great advice on here and seem to know how to tell other people how to hold their ground lol.click to expand