He’s one of my bffs, he’s 30 this year and been through a lot in his life. Just before covid, he took himself off to the hospital after downing a bottle of whiskey during the day. That day, I knew things weren’t adding up and kept ringing him until he answered and let me in. Long story short, he came home with me and stayed for a couple of weeks before returning to our home land and where his family live. From there, he seemed to recover, came back here, got a job, lost it again due to covid. Got a bf move back home, split with the bf, moved back again during 2020 and found love again.
His bf was the best ever, all our friends love him and he seemed too as well. They were living in separate cities in Australia but my friend left his job to move up north to be with him. Then all of a sudden he books a flight back home… that was 8 weeks ago!
He’s gone AWOL. Won’t answer anyone’s calls or messages, has gone off social media or remains low, not posting or liking anything.
My friend has a few flaws as we all do but his biggest is he lies. The lies are generally about boosting himself in others eyes about his finances mostly. My other friend and I have enabled him by not calling him out on it, instead just rolling our eyes so to speak.
Anyway, I don’t know where he’s at? He’s never cut us off like this before and I’m trying to understand why?
Is he depressed again and running from everyone. (this guy makes new friends easily, people take him into their lives very easily-just one of those lovable people that you want around and even when you’re mad at him you just want to hug him)
Any insight to how Virgos think? Tbh, I believe he’ll just all a sudden contact me randomly and come up with another bs story as to why he hasn’t but I am worried and I do miss him… even though I want to kick him because I’m annoyed! My scales are tipping daily on this.