Scorpio moon and mars never gives up on love, if it is bent and not broken. If it's broken we walk away. I'm both btw. If she is sag pluto, I'm guessing early 20s? A lot of young people will date against type, the older you get you sort of keep dating similar types, unless you are gem, aqua or fire influenced.
The other thing is stop feeling sorry for yourself. What's the best thing a man can wear? Confidence. We all have that negative butter in our heads, it pushes people away. What's the best thing a woman can wear? A smile (or failing that I'm partial to sussys and high heels).
I'm older and I'm not earning enough. It's a temporary glitch though. I won't be on the same wage forever neither will you. Looks are subjective. Just because you see a girl as say a 10/10 doesn't mean she sees herself as that. Also when I did the bar scene as a youth, the more attractive girls were often the nicest, that's not to say I got anywhere. The ugly ones were used to men hitting on them as they saw as easy, so they became embittered. I guess Brad Pitt stayed at home that night.