Women have an image of what they want in a man. The men that exude 70% + of women's ideals, realize they have plenty of options, especially if he's attractive. Most guys that complain about not bagging a woman are either beta personalities, or beta looking. Is what it is. You can't really say its men because 58% of society is single and when 97% of people identify as straight... its pretty much 50/50. soooooo. people either need to modify their dream guy/girl or have standards and search. I used to look down on my below performing bro friends because they'd lie to get in a woman's pants, all you had to do was have him run out his "representative" stage and see he's a pos lol. I don't lie, I just focus on avoiding getting trapped. I have permanent grass is greener syndrome.
I'm late-30s don't look it skin wise or physical wise, a well paying job, and an awesome fun personality. Now don't get me wrong it feels awkward messing with women that are 23 (that's probably my limit, and with the immaturity I might have to take it up a little more).... but I don't have children, and won't seriously date a women with children. If I do settle down it would have to be a first for us both. So I either have to date a professional woman, who focused on her career, or a younger woman.