I think the house synastry plays a part. My aries moon is in her 7th house my scorpio venus is in her 5th house and her aqua sun is in my fourth house.... then we have a bunch of things in the second and third....
Very karmatic feeling.... like I normally get annoyed when people talk to me all day every day... with her it's never really bothered me. Even with her... normally she's jumping around and unsettled, she's never been with someone more than a year or so before we started bonding and understanding each other.... I agree its hard finding people that don't want to change you and get you and love you anyway....
Yeah I don't normally push through in relationships. Because I know there will always be more...