What’s weird is in the past I would go off just because it felt comfortable to, but I actively worked on that because I mean, it was just something I had to do. Since then (2 years) I have been way more open and easy going, supportive of whatever she wanted, and let her be her. But with her it’s like she has this toxic side she refuses to acknowledge and fix which I can’t stand around to deal with anymore.
Unfortunately the issue at hand is that if this is one of her phases of emotional and mental regurgitation and will come wandering back again when she doesn’t feel so angry then I’m afraid of being a sucker. She has the best good side but the worst bad side and the good side is what always lures me back….if that is what she ends up trying to do which i’m doubting at this point. Anybody else have similar experiences?