Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggyPosted by LadyNeptune
Why would you want someone to be other than what they are?
It's not about not being who they are.... it's about understand when someone is manipulating them. I actually appreciate her being more sympathetic and empathetic than I am. I am pretty grounded when it comes to bs....and it seems like she's not seeing it I'm trying to figure a way to discuss it that would be receptive.
The empathic and sympathetic nature she has is literally being abused not only by her sister, and her mother but by this libra.... She finally asked me to partner with her to manage her sister and mom - after almost a year, but she keeps this friendship window open with the Libra and hes using it as a foothold, which I feel is counter productive... but she feels guilty so I'm trying to be patient about it, but make sure she sees it.
I don't think its only guilt.
Once she got with this guy you started to come around again, and show interest. Things she felt were lacking in the past, suddenly you are there attentive and caring and giving her all the things she wanted from you when she was exclusively yours. So I don't she will be letting him go anytime soon. He is the catalyst to her getting what she wants outta you.
And I'm sure it sweetens the pot a bit for her to know that you know she also has options. Your not the only one with a weekly rotation. She wants to make sure you know that he's on the bench hand in the air, put me in coach!
I wouldn't say she is the victim here being manipulated by him.click to expand